Talking is risky business.
Listeners sometimes hear what they choose to hear whether it's what we're saying or not.
Very frustrating ...
Back home ... when an old person died he was often remembered as a man who "never said nothin' bad 'bout nobody ..." He might not have said anything good either. He might simply have been a quiet person
I wish I could be quiet.
But, no ... I speak loud and long, and since my guests are almost always kind loving people, they leave my house entertained, encouraged, relaxed and content ... but on those rare occasions when a traitor is in the group, ready to pounce, she never has long to wait before a juicy morsel falls from my lips and can be slanted to fit her agenda.
I hate when that happens ....
all comments welcome ...
contact: MelindaGerner@yahoo.com
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